The Subtle Art of Letting Go

Let Go of Perfect. Take Hold of God’s Grace.
If you are tired of holding everything together, always pushing, always performing, and still feeling like you fall short, this book is for you. The Subtle Art of Letting Go invites you into a different way of living—one where your worth isn’t measured by flawless performance but anchored in God’s unchanging love.

A Journey from Pressure to Peace
Curtis Carter writes as a pastor, a fellow struggler, and a guide who has carried the weight of perfectionism himself. Through honest stories, Scripture, research, and real-world examples, he exposes the myth of “having it all together” and shows how that mindset quietly fuels anxiety, burnout, shame, and spiritual exhaustion. Instead, he invites you into a journey of surrender, trust, and authentic joy.

What You’ll Explore Inside
Across twelve deeply practical chapters, you will learn how to:

• Break free from the myth of perfection and the lie of “never enough”

• See your flaws and struggles as places where God’s beauty and power shine

• Surrender control and trust His plan, even when life doesn’t go your way

• Align daily decisions with God-given values like faith, family, and compassion

• Release chronic worry and live fully present in the moment He has given you

• Set healthy boundaries, say “no” without guilt, and honor the life God entrusted to you

• Practice gratitude, vulnerability, and resilience when life is hard

• Celebrate your imperfections as sacred marks of His design

Built for Real Life, Not Just Highlighted Pages
Each chapter includes simple, do-able features to help you live what you read:

• Guided prayers to help you invite God into your real struggles

• Reflection questions and journaling prompts that go beneath the surface

• Practical “try this” steps for the workplace, relationships, ministry, and everyday life

• Gentle rituals and mindfulness practices that help you slow down and notice God’s presence

Who This Book Is For
The Subtle Art of Letting Go is especially for:

• Perfectionists, people-pleasers, and high achievers who feel constantly “behind”

• Believers who love God but secretly feel like they are failing Him

• Leaders, pastors, parents, and caregivers who carry everyone else’s burdens

• Anyone longing for a faith that feels less like performance and more like relationship

Your Invitation to a Different Kind of Life
You do not have to live chained to perfection, fear, and comparison. You can learn to release what God never asked you to carry, to rest in His grace, and to live with a quiet, settled joy—even in an imperfect life. This book is your companion on that journey: honest, practical, and full of hope.